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Mein Wundervoller Bruder – Part 4

Continued from “Mein Wundervoller Bruder – Part 3“ Now that I had control of my mother’s property and not being interested in keeping it for myself, rather wanting it done, gone, and out of our lives I proceeded to meet … Continue reading

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Mein Wundervoller Bruder – Part 2

See “Mein Wundervoller Bruder – Part 1” Originally when I gave my mother my graves (the plots where Ronnie and I planned to be buried) they were out in a field and far too far for my mother to walk … Continue reading

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Mein Wundervoller Bruder – Part 1

The other day my nephew told me that his father told him that if he were to ever associate with me that he would disown him as his son. What a wonderful man? But before he said that he called … Continue reading

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We Exist

Its amazing, one day we aren’t here and the next day we are.  I’m not talking about being born, I’m talking about our consciousness. I don’t believe there is anyone that can say they remember being born, but you never … Continue reading

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I’m Coming Out

While reading about gay people (See “Am I gay?!!“) and what was going on in the gay world I discovered a book written by a professional football player who had just come out of the closet, it was the 1970’s. Imagine … Continue reading

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Life through the Eyes of Regret

The other day I wrote a posting about my mother (Inge’s Folly) which I did it to honor my mother (and father) and to talk about some of their struggles. I meant the posting to be respectful and I did not intend … Continue reading

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Inge’s Folly

This story is being slightly edited years after I originally posted it. My family in Germany have pretty much decided that I am the devil reborn for having written this, they don’t understand (probably because of cultural differences) that what … Continue reading

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Am I gay?!!

We all have our special and unique stories of realizing we are gay, discovering we weren’t crazy and weren’t the only ones who had same-sex attractions, doing something about it, living with our secret or coming out of the closet.  I think my story is … Continue reading

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It Dog!

My sister-in-law died this past Sunday.  I wasn’t very close to her but I do feel the sting of the loss. I probably wouldn’t have even known she was in a such a bad state or even dying if it hadn’t … Continue reading

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Losing My Identity

I cannot pretend that just because I was born there and have ancestry there (unlike so many Americans with their kilts, dashikis, agbadas, turbins, burkas, hijabs, ushankas, saris, or regalias who “pretend” to be something other than American) despite the fact that I was born German, my mother was from Germany, I have a German government birth certificate (as well as an American birth certificate) I don’t try to force my “German culture” down the throats of Americans. Continue reading

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